The context to forming a relationship is layered history. Be wary trying to hack the online popularity algorithm. We can tweak our social media profiles to match the wisdom of the professionals and garner a marginal advantage in the visibility stakes but it's not the main game we need to be playing.
Many of you ended up married to someone that definitely didn't favourably tick the first impression box. Authenticity is not a moral code, but when we represent ourselves consistently with what we stand for, our authenticity and identity will attract our own tribe.